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Final Resting Place
Blackburn Cemetery
10775 Croton Line
Dresden, Ontario, Canada
Additional Obit Info
Harper: Raymond "Ray" Harper made his final and wildly inappropriate and probably sarcastic comment on Saturday, October 14, 2017 at the age of 60. Born in Chatham, son of the late Ray and Iline (Rogers) Harper. Ray is survived by his wife Patti (Broad) Harper; devoted sons Ray & Stephanie Harper of Chatham, Jeremy Harper of Calgary, and Darryll Harper of Chatham. Step-father of Celeste (Jordan) McMurphy, and Ashley Neidrauer. Loving grandfather to Tyler, Emily, Jayden, Emma and Parker, and sister Nancy (Joe Ball); nieces and nephews Chris, Brian, Joey and Jen.
Ray was world-renowned for his lack of patience, not holding back his opinion, and a knack for telling it like it is. He always told you the truth even if it wasn’t what you wanted to hear. However, he was genuine to a fault, a pussy cat at heart and yet he sugar coated nothing. His extensive vocabulary was more than highly proficient at knowing more curse words than most people learned in a lifetime. Ray liked four letter words almost as much as he loved his Harley Davidson motorcycle, hunting, and conversations with his family and friends. He never missed an opportunity to help someone in need or jump on to an exciting adventure. At Ray's request there will be no visitation or funeral service. Cremation has taken place. Please note his change of address to his new residence Blackburn Cemetery, Dresden. Please give generously to the Chatham-Kent Animal Rescue in memory.
Happy Trails!
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Guy Hache posted a condolence
Sunday, October 17, 2021
Here in London Ontario picking up my mother's ashes in October of 2021. Wanted to meet with you. We had some good times you and I and. I remember when you got your tattoo (who me?) I've tried to contact you many times. Condolences to your family. Hello to Nancy and Christopher God bless you
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The family of Raymond Charles Harold Harper uploaded a photo
Tuesday, September 24, 2019
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sandra mcfadden posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, October 24, 2017
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So sorry to hear of your tragic loss Patti..I feel your sorrow..My sincerest condolences to you and your family..Sandra..
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Mike Broad donated to Chatham-Kent Animal Rescue
Sunday, October 22, 2017
In memory of Raymond Harper.
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Linda Whitson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 21, 2017
Pattie and family
So sorry for your loss my deepest condolences
Linda
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Cathy Smith posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2017
My sincerest condolences on the passing of your father. You are in my thoughts during this difficult time!
Cathy Smith, Farm Credit Canada
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Wendy Wickett Daneliuk posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2017
So sorry for your loss. He was a good man & a great friend. RIP Ray
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Maureen Houston posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
My sincerest heartfelt condolences go out to the family. May you hold your fondest memories in your heart forever. RIP
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Kate Staley lit a candle
Thursday, October 19, 2017
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So very sorry for your loss ,deepest condolences during this time to the entire family
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Wayne Howes posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
My Prayers to Ray Jr. And the rest of the family. Ray will be missed by all who knew him. Rest in Peace Ray. Deepest condolences to all family members. May God grant you strength and peace during your grieving and for your sadness and sorrow.
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Jacky & Tom Jones lit a candle
Thursday, October 19, 2017
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Dear Patti & Family,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about your loss. Wishing you and your family great strength in the days that lie ahead. Rest in peace Raymond.
Sincerely,
Jacky & Tom
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Brian Cammaart posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
Our sincere condolences to the family of our neighbour Ray. Ray was easy to talk with and always a friendly wave.
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Sharron Gillett & John Pul posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
Dear Patti & Family
As you know we didn't get to know Ray very well and are sure he will definitely be missed.
Hugs to everyone at this very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Lots of love!
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Sarah and Jeff Meredith posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
Patti and family,sending our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
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Marilyn Fuchs (Northcott) posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2017
Our condolences to all of the family.
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Doug Steele & Claire Graves posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
To the Harper Family and especially
Raymond and Stephanie Harper and family.
We were very shocked and saddened to hear about the sudden death of your father, Raymond, senior.
There will be a large space no one can fill now except with his memories.
Do remember all the great things that he told you and all his stories. Tell them to your family, your brothers and all so they become the history of your family in the years ahead.
Uncle Doug and Aunt Claire; Sharbot Lake; Ontario
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Luciana Eydt posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Dear Nancy and family, I just saw the notice tonight. I am so very sorry for your loss. Such a terrible tragedy for all of you. I still have memories of the young Raymond that I used to know. My heartfelt condolences to you and all of Raymond's family.
Luciana
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Dennis W. Smith posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Ray truly was a "One and Only" .... rattle some cages in Heaven Rain Man.
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Roger Johnson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
I'm very sorry about the loss of my cousin Raymond. We grew spending many days in our youth having fun and getting into mischief together.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
He will be dearly missed.
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Susan Doey posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My deepest Sympathy. I had no idea Ray was ill.
Must be going to visit all his "angel" buddies. Prayers to Family & Friends
R.I.P. Ray
Susan Doey
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Krista posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Ray was one of my favourite customers at The Black Goose. Every time I saw him come him I knew my day was going to get better. He was always happy, joking and smiling. I'm going to miss serving him. My sincerest condolences to Ray's family.
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Sharron & Wayne Myers lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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We are so sorry for your loss. May he rest in piece. Sending BIG hugs.
Aunt Sharron &Uncle Wayne
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Angie mills Richards posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss sending hugs and prayers to all family and friends ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Brent Butt
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Red Wing Darren McCarty
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad at Mount Rushmore
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad with the Tetzlaff Racing Crew
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad showing off
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad chilling
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad showing off one of his 1,000 funny shirts
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Ray Jr., Dad and Darryll
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Ray Jr.
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Ray Jr.
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad being dad
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Ray Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad, Tyler and Emily
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Harper Family with Ray Jr. 1975
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Emily at the movies for her 10th birthday 2017
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Ray Jr. 1979
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad as Batman
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Harper Family 1976
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad conquering the Tail of the Dragon
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Hippy Dad
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Barney Fife
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad 1985
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad where he belongs
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Dina & Gary Edwards posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Ray’s quick wit and humorous way of looking at life will be missed. Our sincerest condolences to his family.
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Al and Tracey Childs posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
So sorry for your loss, Patti and family. You are remembered in our thoughts and prayers.
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad with his first Harley 2014
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Emily Newborn 2007
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and his 3 Boys 1989
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and the Grandkidlets 2008
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Tyler 2008
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad in New York Reservoir for New Years Eve 2014
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Ray Harper Jr. uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dad and Emily 2008
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Becky Labadie posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all.
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Garnet & Donna Fox posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Patti & Family - Our sincere condolences, Thinking of you during this difficult time.
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Stephanie Harper uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Seeing double?
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Aaron Ouellette posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Thank you for helping me become the man I am today. I wasn't the easiest kid to handle but you loved me dispite myself. You will missed but never forgotten. Save me a seat at the Masters table.
Love you Dad!
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Carol Bryans donated to Chatham-Kent Animal Rescue
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My sincere condolences for the tragic loss of Raymond
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Bonnie MacKenzie posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My Prayers are with you at this sad time
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Geri Hughson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My prayers to family and friends, Ray was a great man he will be missed a lot from everyone
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Barbara McCaughrin posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Ray will certainly be missed. He was a good friend with a big heart. Hugs to each and every one of you.
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Mike Broad posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
I am so sorry to hear this sad news, Patti. Love, Mike xo
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Gordon James Saya posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My deepest condolences to all Rays family. He was a character and yet his heart was genuine and sincere. We shared an eventful yet short life together as “Birthday Brothers” and riders on the road. His humour and bigger than life stature walked ahead of him wherever he turned his interest.
GOD rest and keep your Soul in HIS Hands.
Blessings
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Roberta McKenna posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
I met Ray on the "TGW" Cruise a couple of years ago, and had talked before that in the group. He could definitely get everyone laughing.... I'm so sorry for your loss, my condolences to everyone. The world needs more people like him.He will truly be missed.
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Lorraine Marsh-Vermote posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
To Patti and the family of the late Raymond Harper my deepest sympathies and prayers
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Lorraine Marsh-Vermote
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Nicky Falconer posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
My deepest condolences go out to Ray, Stephanie and their family, was so sad to hear this news. Thoughts and prayers with you all.
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Brenda Broad lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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So sorry to hear of your loss Patti....thinking of you and your family at this time.
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Evelyn Morgan Howe posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Our deepest sympathies to all the family.
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Elizabeth Manso posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Saying goodbye to such a great cousin breaks my heart. Raymond you will be missed beyond measure. Thank you for the special "Boots and Hearts" cowboy hat.
Patti and Nancy...I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings love and hugs during this difficult time.
Betty Ann and Family
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Kim and Carol Campbell posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Ray, Steph, Emily and Tyler. We were so sorry to hear of Ray Sr's tragic death. It was a refreshingly honest obituary.
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Paul and Marie Kendall posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
We are so sorry to hear about Ray. Thoughts and prayers.
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Jennifer Pietens posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Dear Patti, Celeste and families,
I was very shocked and saddened to hear of Rays passing. He was a very unique person and good friend. I will miss his sarcasm, crazy jokes and his adventures posted on Facebook. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Ray is on his next adventure and I'm sure it will be a wild ride!
Hugs,
Jenn
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Wilkins family posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Our condolences. Thinking of you during this very difficult time.
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Mike and Sharon Jochim posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Dear Nancy and Family. Our deepest condolences on the passing of your brother, father, grandpa and friend. Keeping you all in our thoughts during this sad time.
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Steve&Kathie Stephens. lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Dave and Cheryl Cameron posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Dear Patti, Celeste and family
So sorry to hear of Ray's death. He was a unique individual.
Will miss him popping in at the pharmacy.
Cheryl
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Ronald & Paula Cameron posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
We are heartbroken of Mr Ray’s passing. We feel so blessed to have met him and he will forever be in our hearts. Now he is on the most beautiful journey he could ever imagine. Fly high and cruise on. Our love and sympathy are with the Harper family during this time.
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John R Clark lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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RIP Ray ride every day
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Steve Harwood posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
On behalf of the Harwood Family, Raymond was our cousin and nephew. From the day that I first met Raymond when my brother and I met him at our Grand Parents more than 50 years ago. He was a rebel, yet fun-loving and fun to be with. We will surely miss him.
Patti and Nancy and your families, from the Harwood family to yours, we wish you our deepest condolences.
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Venetia Moor lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Ray, you were one of a kind. The world has lost its laughter today. Your generosity, and you big heart cannot be matched by any other. I will miss you my friend, and I am honoured to have had you in my life. Rest well, Ray.
A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul will forever remain in our hearts. My most heartfelt condolences to Ray's family.
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sharron myers posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May he rest in piece. We wanted you to know we are thinking of you boys
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Laura Derick posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
So Sorry for the loss of such an amazing man
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Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Susan Solomon lit a candle
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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Cathy Prangley posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Patti and family:
Thinking of you at this sad time!
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sandi and dale stewardson posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Nancy and your family will miss our chats and coffee with Ray odd times always chatted back and forth he was a great man do tragic huggsss for you and all the kids condolences to everyone rip Ray loved seeing g how he loved living life to the fullest in his posts!
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